My brother is a hateful bully but he's still my mum's favourite

My brother is a hateful bully but he's still my mum's favourite

DEAR DEIDRE: AT school, my brother always bullied me and other kids. Even now, as an adult, he hasn’t stopped.

He is a hateful man, though he was indulged by my father and myself. He married and had kids and my mother made excuses for his horrid behaviour all the time.


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She ran around after them, looking after his children so he could take his wife away. She never did anything for me or my kids.

Dad passed away and my brother scattered the ashes without inviting me.

Now his own marriage is over and he is living with my 87-year-old mother but paying no rent. He is still the blue- eyed boy. He’s 56, I’m 50.

Mum has said she doesn’t want her funeral to be one that has arguing children there. But how will I sort the arrangements when the time comes? I hate him and am ashamed he is my brother.

DEIDRE SAYS: Tell your mother you are thinking of taking out a funeral plan yourself and maybe then she will tell you if she has put anything in place.

Or suggest you will help her do that.

And find support from Stand Alone (standalone.org.uk), which helps people who have become estranged from family members.

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