DEAR DEIDRE: HAVING forgiven my husband once for flirting with women he met online, I’ve discovered he’s doing it again.
We are both in our mid-40s and have been married for 20 years. We have a great sex life and I thought everything was fine.
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My husband suddenly seemed a bit distant around six months ago and the great sex stopped.
I knew something was wrong and I was so hurt when I found out he’d been messaging women and exchanging sexy photos.
He said sorry and that it had been a mistake.
But this time he’s not sorry and says that it’s all my fault.
He says I’m jealous and I don’t understand his need to be friends with other women. I don’t think my marriage can survive this.
DEIDRE SAYS: It was reasonable to give your husband another chance but sadly he hasn’t proved worthy of your trust.
Maybe he doesn’t see online behaviour as cheating but ask him how he would feel if you were flirting and exchanging sexy photos with other men.
Be firm that you won’t be bullied and your marriage won’t last.
Counselling would help. See tavistockrelationships. org and relate.org.uk.
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