DEAR DEIDRE: I’M scared my husband is having an affair with a woman from his slimming club.
He started going to the weekly class six months ago. I already knew this woman and I don’t trust her. She’s 38. He and I are both 42.
He sees her before their class and they have a coffee and catch up. He only stays an hour but I know she’s lonely and drinks too much.
What bothers me is that I think my husband paid off her catalogue bill. His last credit card statement shows he’d paid a clothes bill that’s not ours. I think it’s hers.
He’s the sort of guy who talks to anyone and everyone. I’m more shy. I told him I’m worried but he says I’ve nothing to worry about.
DEIDRE SAYS: But you have. Even if their relationship is purely friendship, he shouldn’t be settling her debts. Insist she finds another way of paying this off.
Is your husband going to her for attention? Does he feel demoralised and less attractive because he had gained weight? Could you do more to bring romance back into your relationship?
My e-leaflet Your Relationship MOT can help you keep his focus at home.
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