I am a woman of 28 and in a lesbian relationship. My girlfriend is 29 and we have been together for four years. The sex used to be good though she never made me orgasm.
Now our sex life has just died on its feet. Neither of us seems to feel any spark.
There is a new girl at work and we have flirted. I know I will struggle to keep my hands off her if she shows more sexual interest in me.
I don’t want to split up with my girlfriend but something is clearly missing.
DEIDRE SAYS: Have you ever tried to show your girlfriend what works to bring you to orgasm?
If you truly don’t want to split with your girlfriend then you have to stop the flirting at work.
Put fresh energy into your relationship – including sexually.
My e-leaflet on Orgasm For Women should help.
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