I love my new girlfriend but I'm terrified of being unable to get an erection | The Sun

I love my new girlfriend but I'm terrified of being unable to get an erection | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: ERECTILE dysfunction is a problem for me and I’m scared I’ll let my new girlfriend down if I take her to bed.

I’m 49, divorced and diabetic.


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My erection difficulties have got worse over the past three years.

My GP has tried to help but we have run out of options.

His last resort is referring me for a penis implant, but I’m not keen on having a procedure like that.

I have recently found a new girlfriend. She’s 45 and just so lovely.

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We are taking it slowly at the moment but it’s her birthday coming up soon and I want to take her away.

I know that sex will be on the cards for us but I’m worried sick I won’t be able to perform. Can you give me some help?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Diabetes can affect sexual performance because nerve endings in the penis can be damaged.

This is due to either high blood sugar, high blood pressure or blood fats.

It isn’t always the case, though.

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Your issues may be down to simple performance anxiety.

My support pack Solving Erection Problems may help but you will find extra advice from Diabetes UK (diabetes.org.uk, 0345 123 2399).

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