I found an opened condom wrapper in my husband's car and I am devastated

I found an opened condom wrapper in my husband's car and I am devastated

DEAR DEIDRE: OUR youngest child was born premature and brain-damaged due to an infection caused by chlamydia. I’d caught it from my husband, who had been paying women for sex.

We are in our thirties and have been together for ten years and have three kids. Our youngest, a boy, is three.

I thought my husband would have learned his lesson but I could tell recently he was at it again.

He went out the other day saying he had to help a friend. I checked afterwards and found an opened condom wrapper in the footwell of his car.

When I confronted him, he admitted it. I am absolutely devastated. I don’t know what to do. I’ve never refused him sex.

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DEIDRE SAYS: It is hard to comprehend your husband would run that risk again. Does he say he is sorry? And promise to stop?

If not, I don’t see how your marriage can survive.

If he wants to stop but hasn’t enough willpower, it is a form of sex addiction.

My e-leaflet Addicted To Sex explains but he has to admit his problem is out of control and he needs help.

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